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Sandy S's avatar

Kollibri, there are a lot of things to learn in this world. We never know which lesson is coming next. Perhaps you are learning about how we humans age and die. That alone can be different for each of us. Aging and caring for the older population is a missing subject in all of our educational systems. I went through a crash course when caring for my parents at the end of their lives. They were very fine and healthy people well into their 80's when it became apparent, that they needed help. I spent the next 10 years learning about how to help them and there was so much to learn! But as I say, they were fine people who I loved, and I needed to learn what this aging stuff was all about if for no other reason than to help me at that time in life. The good news is that some part of me had been preparing for that time with them. Tending to be a self-sufficient little beast, I started to learn how to bend with the needs and practicalities of each day. I also learned a good deal about these people, my parents and grew closer to them. So, I tell you this in hopes that it sends some information that may help you on your new path, whatever that path may be.

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Lisa Savage's avatar

An interesting meditation. Reminds me of this persistent problem in the Occupy encampments -- I observed this coast to coast where asshole behavior drove people away that really wanted to be there. Collective efforts were needed to hold space for everybody. One big city I knew of did triage as people entered the camp, addressing the special needs of assholes with compassion and, sometimes, professional services. Would it have worked long term? We'll never know, because Obama had cops violently evict the encampments.

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